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writes:What is it with men and putting kisses on the end of texts? I'd like for the majority of answers to men just so i know, but women feel free to answer too with your opinions:)Okay so, i don't wanna be judged on the age different or whatever, this isnt about that...but i'm extremely close with one of my ex neighbours, we're really good friends NOTHING MORE! he's around 30. He recently moved out and he's single he's not with anyone..and like i said we're extremely good friends, anyways i was just wondering..do alot of men that age put kisses on the ends of texts? i put atleast 1 when texting him because i just always have done, it doesn't mean anything..but then he'll occasionaly put some too with some of the things that he says...is this weird? Do alot of men put x's on the end of texts?? We're not into each other at all, this isnt about that!! I was just wondering how men feel about putting x's on the end of texts..i personally find it quite rude and upsetting when people don't put them because to me it's like they're mad with you:') But, how do men feel about putting them? Does it mean anything to you?Thankyou!! 3
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2011): I put kisses and smilies at the end of most of my texts. If I'm going out with the girl then it's usually around 3-4, if it's one of my close girl mates who I'm looking to get with, usually 2-3, if it's my family or mates then usually just the single kiss :P And then there's my best guy mate, whom we drown eachother with kisses at the end of our texts, just a bit of banter :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011):
My girlfriend puts this at the end of e-mail a lot, even e-mail to other guys. I don't think she means anything by it, but do you think the guys are getting a wrong impression?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): I put smilies, xoxox and everything else when I text my girlfriend. I only do this with her. I would never dream of ending a text like that unless I am romantically invloved with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): He may just have that habit from texting girls a lot. I know guys who do and only when they're texting girls, we're a similar age to this guy and we'd seriously start slagging the hell out of him if he put a kiss at the end of each text to us guys. They still get slagged for doing that, because seriously putting a kiss at the end of every text is seriously soppy for a guy to do.
'x' is a kiss like, that's what it stands for. Fine if girls want to do that but come on a guy doing that is very girly.
'Hey how are you? kiss', 'Yeah that sounds like fun. kiss'
I mean come on, it looks weird.
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reader, auntyR +, writes (3 June 2011):
my bf always puts an X or two at the end of his texts to me. It's endearing and sweet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011): Me & my boyfriend put at least 2 in every text to each other but usually we don't put them at all to other people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2011):
I don't do it. I am American. Must be a British thing.
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reader, N91 +, writes (3 June 2011):
 I'm 19 and put xs on my text whether its to a girl or a boy mate, just a force of habit.
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reader, zebralove  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 I know i'm a girl but I think your question is interesting. I use to put xox's and smilies in my texts when I was younger but now I don't to it onften unless I realy want to show the mood of my text is. I find it verry strange that a man that age is putting xox's in texts because no guy i know does that, not even if we are dating, and if they do it kind of annoys me because i find it childish. Guys I know only put them if they like the girl. Maybe thats why?
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reader, Drew21 +, writes (3 June 2011):
 I never put anything like that into a text. Once in a blue moon i may but a smiley face, or a tongue-sticking-out face, but never, ever a kiss or hug or XOXO or XXX or anything like that.
It's hard not to find the situation you describe as anything other then creepy, ya know?
I'm in my early 30's, and i don't even put XOXO into texts with my wife, let alone a girl your age.
Strikes me as very girly.
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