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writes:Ok, heres the things. I have been dating my current girlfriend for about 1.5 years. For like the past half year she never wants to do anything any more, all she wants to do is watch tv and sleep. Don't get me wrong, when i get off work, I like to just relax for a while and do nothing most days, but when I am off and would like to do something all she wants to do is watch tv and sleep. She doesnt have a job so she just lays around all day until i get there. She is always a bitch to me, I cant have any friends girls or guys without her thinking im having sex with them, i mean im not into guys at all and im not he cheating type at all. I've met someone online (nothing sexual at all just friends) who ive talked to about this and she told me i need to get out of there as soon as I can, I have been thinking about leaving her anyways for a while now. What do you guys think? Reply to this Question
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (27 June 2009):
I think you should leave her but also try to help her at the same time, She probably is depressed because she is in a slump and dont know how to get out of it, You cant really do anything for her if she doesnt want to help herself, maybe she should start by getting a job why is she just laying around all day. Honey if she is treating you like crap then yes you need to leave her there is never a reason to stay when you are unhappy and being treated badly. Your women friend was correct on this one just leave give her financial assistance for a couple of months then tell her to get her crap together she is more than likely using you to pay her bills what a good man you are to not expect anything of her she should be grateful and willing to make a effort
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reader, Stephen Stewart Nixon  +, writes (27 June 2009):
 Sounds like your girl friend is suffering from depression. If you love her help her find a purpose for her life. If you are more into yourself than her then leave her because you won't be much help to her. Sorry but it's true
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reader, kaydee +, writes (27 June 2009):
Your girlfriend seems like she's just not that into you anymore. My advice, you should leave. You seem like u need more than a girl who lays around & does absolutely nothing. & of course, if u cant have any friends, then that's a BIG problem. She's insecure & u dont need that. Leave before its too late.
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