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Flirting games...

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Question - (17 April 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2010)
A female United States age , anonymous writes:

This is about a guy I work with, I knew him for 3 years and a week ago we were just joking around about flirting. He's married and I'm married so he asked me a question in a message "do you want to satisfy my curiosity? so I reply back to him "Yes" and he never replied back to me. Now I'm confused.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for all the great advice!!

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (17 April 2010):

rcn agony auntYou were doing flirting games. Is there a chance you were taking this serious, as an affair may pursue with your saying yes, or do you consider that as only being part of the game? Some who innocently flirt, have no intention of taking it further than just some joking around. And with both of you being married, that should be where that stands, or you'd need to looking into why your marriage is not satisfying.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2010):

I think it was just flirting. That's all.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (17 April 2010):

CindyCares agony aunt Oh well- like you said : the guy was just flirting . Joking around. Having some harmless fun. Maybe he thought your answer indicated that you really meant business :) and he got a bit taken aback because probably he wants to play ... but not beyond a certain point. After all, he's married.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (17 April 2010):

Well it's just flirting so he's not going to be taking it seriously.

Maybe he couldn't think of anything clever to say. Maybe his phone rang, and then he got on with some work.

Meaningless flirting is great fun and good for a marriage, but it is just that... Meaningless.

You'll fly out of his head just as easily as you fly into it. He doesn't have feelings for you, he's just joking around. If you think you have feelings for him then stop flirting and go and make your husband take you out for a nice date.

This is just a running joke between the 2 of you, nothing more.

Good Luck!! xx

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