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writes:HELP!!!!!!i really need some help i have a real problem i like 5 guys all at the sane time i dont know which to choose cos i know it will be slutty and unfair to pick them all lolwell the 1st guy is going out with my best friendso i know he's outta the picture, 2nd is a twin who i like alot but have never actually met in person just spoke online, 3rd is a guy that really likes me and that i like whop is comin to meet me this saturday, 4th is a guy that i really like alot i've met him anf we talk by txt and online but he has a bf, also i like his brother but we don't talk much i've met him but it was only for a few hours lol GRRRRR what do i do???? i need advice who should i pick, or should i say no to them all and wait for a guy to come along that ticks all the boxes????thanks a swift response would be appreciated
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): 13 is a tad young hunny usually it takes awhile to realise your sexuality so I wouldnt love ok...Your quite young to sweetheart how old were you when you realised your sexuality...Just being nosey sweety (:0) And always remember love if you are thinking along the lines of sex SAFE SEX!!!!!!!You just dont no who's got what and what new designer diseases are out there sweetpea xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys,
thanks for the advice it helped lol especially the diary tip hehe i wento to meet guy number 3 and unfortunatley it aint gonna work out he was really creepy i know it might sound weird but i dint like that he complimented me every 5 minutes it got annoying i told him to stop but he just said "ur cute when ur angry" he really got on my nerves so i'm just gonna let him know it aint gonna work, as for the twins im still flriting but only with the one thats single they are both male and gay lol, i decided to drop guys 1, 3, and 4 so its between guys 2 the twin, or 5 the brother and alosi now guy 6 who is a great guy i met him a few days ago through some friends of mine, he's smart talented, funny, really cute, goes to my school and lives in my town lol its perfect but i think ill get to know him before i make my move lol but he's 13 and i'm 15 is that a bit weird or is that an OK age difference?????
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): Hunny
Your funny, In a good way! (:0) well you dont want no guy telling you he loves you after 2 days sweetpea!!!!!(Hold on I here jaws music!) That is a tad scarey, Are you on gaydar hunny? Strange question just nosey!!!!I have lots of gay mates!!!You could give it ago but if he does start getting the rings out love then I would grab the next bus home proto! And put it down to 3 left, you cant go out with your best mates guy love.....As cute as he may be! Whats this twin like? And will there be problems with his twin if its a guy!!!!then there will be more to choose from...Its like a woolies pick n mix!!!!!!!Keep doin what I said pop it in your diary and give them ticks and the one with the most WINS!!!!TRA LA!!!!:) You no wot they say sweety when you need a bus you cant find one and when you dont there all over the place!!!!!!!!LOL! TAKE CARE LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys thanks alot for the advice but there are things i forgot to mention about guy number 3 although i do like him and he likes me and we are both single he is also the one that lives the furthest away from me and the one that after talking online for 2 days started to tell me loves me, i really don't think i like him enough yet to be calling it love, so what do i do i'll go for guy number 3 but what if he tries to move things too fast i mean if he loves me after 2 days give it a fortnight and he'll be praposing, lol hope you guys don't mind answering that other lil question for me
but thanks for the answers so far
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reader, Love_is_all_youu_need +, writes (2 April 2008):
 Hiya!
Guy 1: If he's going out with your best friend, don't even think about it! It'd all end in tears.
Guy 2: If you've only spoke to him online and never met him, you won't know what he's really like. He could be a rite arsehole lol!
Guy 3: Sounds Okay!
Guy 4: If he's already with someone, It's best not to interfere!
Guy 5: He sounds Okay too, but you don't really know him well...
So I'd say Guy 3, but in the end it's down to you... follow your heart! xx
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reader, Namatjira +, writes (2 April 2008):
Some good advice here but I would like to add my bit.
Clearly there is no one guy out of these that sets your heart all a flutter and who makes you forget everything else. That being so, date any of them that are single on the clear understanding that you are just getting to know each other and are not starting a relationship. These days too many people think that a relationship starts on the first date and that just aint so and has never been so. These first few dates are all about getting to know each other. Don't do anything that should be reserved for a relationship and you will have no regrets. BUT you have got to make this clear.
The media and all the rest these days seem to imply that the first date or first time you are seen together makes a relationship. What utter rubbish. It just means what it is. That you are getting to know each other. I think this is why so many pre teens are getting worried about boyfriends and so on when they should still be enjoying being kids and having lots of friends.
Some good advice though, if you are in any doubt then it just is not right so move on.
Hope this helps
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 I would have to agree with Annalisa in that if there are five guys to pick from then you mustn't like one of them enough for a relationship.
If you had to pick one, I would say go for number three ( LOL sounds like Blind Date), because if you both like each other and neither of you have a bf or gf then it should really be him out of all of them.
I would say that if you feel that you would be likely to hurt him in thinking about/flirting with the other boys, then I'd suggest you stay single.
Overall, I would say that you should stay single and I'm sure that it'll all settle down and you will probably know who you'd prefer to go out with, you don't want to make a big mistake and get hurt, or hurt someone else.
Take a bit of a time out, flirt around and I'm sure that if you wait it out, you'll know who you'll want to be with.
Take care xx
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (2 April 2008):
 This must be awfull for you, imagine that 5 and you dont know which one.
I bet you will have just as much trouble finding a hat to fit.
Good luck XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2008): Hi Hunny
Wot a dilema!!!!!!!!!!(:0) Well pop em all in ur diary sweetheart and tick away at all the good points, And bobs ya uncle and fannys ur aunt! when you get the the one with the most ticks GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!TAKE CARE LOTS OF LUUUUUUV N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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