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writes:This may seem like an awkward question but here goes, last night I had a dream that I was making out with a girl but she wasn't my girlfriend, it was my best friend I've known for 6 years, and I used to like her before I met my girlfriend. Can anyone explain what or if this means something?
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reader, Artistry +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Hi, You stated you liked this person, before you met your girlfriend and I would imagine, but not know, that you did not engage in any physical, sexual contact with your friend? So, the dream could possibly, just be some repressed latent, left over feelings, you still have for your friend, which could be suppressed and showing up in your dreams. Then again, it could be nothing but a dream, that's all. If you are happy, and in love with your girlfriend, put the dream out of your mind and carry on with your life. I dreamed I was out on a date with John Kerry, which is never, ever going to happen, maybe subconsciously I would like that, but the man is married, rich, and totally out of my world. Doesn't stop the dreams. So let it fade away, walk in reality, and be happy. Now if it was a vision, just make sure you are only involved, with one person at a time. Don't complicate your life. Take care.
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reader, Stayc63088 +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Were you thinking about her right before you fell asleep? Dreams don't really mean anything. I have had dreams where I am in love with random guys I can't stand or dating Dave Matthews... Don't read too much into it. The dream itself doesn't mean anything. Only you know if you still have feelings for your friend. Good luck.
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reader, HonningKanin  +, writes (26 May 2008):
 Honestly it just probably is inner feelings you have towards you friend. Not really sexual in nature just probably shows you care deeply.
As adult we no longer have an innocent notion of love(family love) to people who aren't in our family and the only way adults of the opposite sex, out of the family, use sex to convay affection. In this case towards your friend you feel affectionate to and you just were dreaming it in the way you know now, but in actually you probably dont have any romantic feelings.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): It may mean something or it may mean nothing. Try not to worry about it. Out minds run through everything at night... What we used to feel, what we feel now.. And it can all get jumbled around.
Don't get stressed about your dreams, if you don't like her anymore and you prefer your girlfriend then it probably doesn't mean anything.
Good Luck,
I hope your confusion fades.
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