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writes: i have posted a couple of questions on here with some great advice coming back. so thanks to everyone who has helped. just wanted to ask the females really(but the males are quite welcome) that if you say to your ex that you still love them alot and care for them, and it finished on good terms but it just doesnt feel right at the moment would you say that in time there could be a chance that you might get back together again?? or not??
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (14 January 2006):
 The one thing that is certain in this life is "Never say Never". You pose a great question! Is it over or do you need time to regroup. Lot's of couple's have gotten back together later in life and had extremely successful relationships. They say "all is well, that ends well". I say you did an incredibly smart thing by ending it on a good note. Nobody is pointing a finger or yelling or hurt. So there is always a chance. Sometimes you just need to get a little air to see what your doing. Great job and hopefully it will end up however YOU want it too.
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reader, StarNews +, writes (14 January 2006):
 I feel that nothing is ever over and that there is always a chance for reconciliation. Its all about timing. And it doesn't seem that it was the right time for the two of you. It sounds like you both ended it on good terms with alot of love still there. I would say there is definetely a chance somewhere down the road.
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reader, fairyangel  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 I would say that the door has been left open, so to speak, with that in mind, when the time is right, there could be a very good chance something good and positive could come about for the two of you together.
Hope everything works out the way you wish, Lotsa Luck To You, and keep smiling.
PS.
It's great to know that you have been helped by advice given to you on this column, they say... a problem shared is a problem halved... even if it is just a sympathetic ear, it all helps.
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 I would say there is a chance but i have heard the distinction made (including by my own current partner) between being 'in love' and 'loving' somebody. From what i can see the disction boils down to active (in love and in relationship) and passive (caring and loving somebody and maybe offering non-relationship support). Maybe you need to find out which it is with your ex.
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