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writes:When i have sex with my girlfriend, there is always a wet patch afterwards, and the same when i give her oral. does this mean she had an orgasm?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2008): i find that after i orgasm there is always a wet patch on the bed, and it might just be me but i dont agree that it takes a long time to orgasm. i usually come within a short space of time, its only when im really stressed or tired it takes me a long time. it sounds like ur doing a good job, u will know if she orgasms by her breathing and a tightening of her body. ask her next time shes the only one who has the real answer.
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (12 September 2008):
 Saltwater is right on!!!
and you might also let her get on top and take over. This way she can move the way she knows is going to bring her to orgasm and it will give you a better idea of what brings her to have one.
Or just ask if you guys talk openly about it and if you don't, try talking about it. It will make a big difference in your lovemaking!!
Good luck...
Michelle
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reader, saltwater  +, writes (12 September 2008):
 In short; no.
Trust me, you will know when your girlfriend has an orgasm!
Making a woman orgasm if VERY difficult; a lot of women go through life and never have one.
If you want to make her orgasm then it usually involves long and sensitive sessions of oral sex. Ask her what she likes. You'll stand a better chance of making her orgasm then.
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