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writes:Hi everyone!!! I have a problem you see my best friend in the whole world and I got in a fight last month and it got very physical. And she slapped me first cause she said that people said that I was talking bout her behind her back but I wasn't!! And it was a huge fight the principle hand a couple of teachers had to pull us off each other. And we both were pretty beat up you know but the suspended me!! Which really isn't fair cause she hit me first!! and I jus need to know why did I only get suspended if she started it?!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): Miss Angela from the UK, Okay firstly let your skin calm down.You two need to cool down and i would ask to meet her but with a friend on your side to witness your say and do.But let's be honest and face it Appear's mad? walk away and dump her.Appear'a to be a nutter!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck,babe you need it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): Tell your parents and they need to ask the principle.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (26 March 2009):
bOy CrAzY;} is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay listen I DID NOT spread rumors bout her that's just what people said!! She was my best friend why would I do that!!
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reader, cutie1195 +, writes (26 March 2009):
listen i got in two fights back when i was in 7th grade with both of my best friends my friend that i know sense 6th grade got in a fight because i was trying to tell her what she said and she was all saying that she never said it but i remember for fact that she did and we stayed mad at each other for at least 3 or 4 weeks but finally we talked and got over it. My other friend that i meet last year we got in a fight because she wrote something about me on a music stand and she was trying to deny that she did not do it but yet i say her do it and we got in a huge fight and argument saying that she did and did not do it but i know she did. NEVER BELIVE PEOPLE AND WHAT THEY SAY AND SPRED RUMORS BECAUSE IN-LEASE YOU KNOW THAT IT'S TRUE THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST GO UP AND CONFRONT YOUR BEST FRIEND AND TELL HER IT'S TRUE INSTEAD OF PEOPLE SPREADING IT FOR YOU AND THAT WAY SHE WON'T BE AS MAD AT YOU.
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reader, bOy CrAzY;} +, writes (26 March 2009):
bOy CrAzY;} is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I did hit her back but she started it and didn't get any punishment!! And I think that's hardly fair!!!!
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (26 March 2009):
it depends how it was seen, who was there to witness it and how badly each of you were hurt. it seems unfair but there will be a reason, stick to being honest through and through, if you did no wrong then find a way of proving it. next time dont play to peoples tune, if they start on you its not exactally the 'cool' method but walk away, that way they look like the willy and youve done no wrong.and by the way rather than the whole angry thing if your werre best mates why not talk about it first? if it was my best mate a real mate the last thing she or i would of done however bad is start fighting with each other! im not gunna be the mature one that looks at it from the outside as i wasnt there and it was probably a whole lot different just next time handle it differently and you wont find yourself having to prove your innocence.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Because it takes two to tango, my dear!! I know that it feels unfair and that she started it, but it seems like the fight got pretty nasty! Did you hit her back?
Lesson learned, my sweet. Good luck!
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