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writes:Hi i'm 13-14 years old and there is this guy i've like for 6 years and he always hugs me and stuff and even feels me and touches me etc sometime he kisses me anyways everytime he does that i like it but he then goes on about other girls who he thinks are fit and sexy and nice and he ask's me if he should ask them out even though he knows i like him. I'm confussed does he like me or not? or is he just using me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007):
Give him advice and always be there for him. Stand by him. Don't let nobody hurt him. Don't desert him in his time of need. HE might see what a great person you are and realize you are the one for him. good luck and i hope it works out
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reader, cupidhelper  +, writes (25 September 2007):
you need to tell him to set up boundaries: he's either friend with benifits (kissing and 3rd base at your age); friends only, or your boyfriend. If you can't handle being open, don't be friend with benefits.
He could be hinting that he want to be your boyfriend or just wants to sleep with you. If he doesn't want to be you FB and keeps touching you, he's useing you.
Girls have hormones too, not just LOVE, if you get touched enough, you'll do more. If you have a crush or are in love, you'll do a lot more, even if he's "honest" about not wanting to be your boyfriend. But an honest person Won't sexually touch or sleep with someone who wants to be more than friends. If you make it clear you want to be his girlfriend and he suggests friends with benefits-- he's using you.
People in love think if they have sex with the person they love long enough, that person will love them back. So anyone who sleeps with someone who wants More knowing they don't-- is a liar.
Even casual sex has rules of politeness. Both people are suppose to Enjoy themselves and not get hurt. If that's the rules for casual, think how stick the Rules are for LOVE!
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reader, rcn +, writes (22 September 2007):
 Nope, you're leaving yourself open for this treatment. You allow him to kiss you, feel you and touch you, without establishing yourself with him. If you like him, tell him. Ask him if he will be your boyfriend. If you don't he may consider you to be a good friend that has a few extra things you guys do together. He may also be saying that in a way to view your reaction on if you like him or not.
Using is different. That would be like, you have full understanding you're in a relationship with him, he makes an effort to keep you believing that, yet is doing the same with others.
You need to ask him where he stands.
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reader, Chrissi[[HURRICANE]] +, writes (22 September 2007):
i think he might like you, and he might be trying to make you jealous so that youll tell him how you feel..
but it could go both ways.. just ask him.
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reader, rose the relationship solver +, writes (22 September 2007):
 it seems this lad is confused. Boys don't mature proply till about 18. this lad is definatly using you to see if you will take the bait and have intercourse with him. Try and keep your best away from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2007): i've been thru that.with a guy.
im 14 btw.
and seriously it took me like a year to be over him.
somehow and eventually the feelings i thought i had for him.just fades away.
and when you start to be in a relationship, he'll wont be on your mind so often.
yes you'll think of him,but not as much.and not love any longer.
i suggest you just make it clear to him,that you guys are just friends,nothing else.
and make sure you that!
if he likes you,
he'll definitely come back to you.
like text messaging you or calling you.
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reader, Emaz help +, writes (22 September 2007):
 6 years is an awfully long time! You see i've been in love with a boi for 1yr and im losing my mind! Anyway, if you do seriously like him, you need to tell him you can't keep on liking him without him knowing because then nothing will ever happen! When i have to do something like that and im scared i just think to myself 'you only live once', it builds up courage :) if he's doing these things to you then he probably does like you, and hes just talking about other girls to get you jealous!
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