Does anyone think he loves me?

A female age 51-59, *bbyann123 writes:

ok , so after my divorce in 2004 , me and a long time friend who was divorcing too . started to sleep together the first time once , did not see him for 9 months he called apologized and said i did not deserve that , we got to gather a few times a week for a while , then without warning poof disappeared , a few months later reappeared said he was not ready to settle down ( he had a bad marriage she left him for another man ) and it would be when his kids got grown and he felt like he was wasting my time . I assured him after two failed marriages of my own he was the best man i have ever dated and i could wait . well a while maybe a year later he tells me he does not love me the way i deserve and he feels guilty and yep gone again . we reunited shortly in 2008 then he was gone until feb 2011 . we have talked on the phone a bit and gotten together once an had a few more conversations. i am trying to let him be the caller because he likes to lead , i did ask him if he had an expiration date this time and he laughed saying I dont know . he has told me in the past that when he is about ready to say what i want to hear (the l word ) he runs like a fox being shot at . His kids are almost grown the youngest graduates next year , we dont argue we laugh alot , he does lil things for me like make me coffee or rub my feet . our together time is great . and i am crushed when he leaves. So question is , does anyone think he loves me , or is just useing me . or what ? what do i do ?

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