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female
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anonymous
writes: iv just split with my boyfriend and all i can think about is him. hes changed his number and blocked all contact so i cant get hold ov him. know this is for the best but just cant stop thinkin of him. when ever i go out everyones askin me if we still together and everything due to this i havnt been anywere the last couple of days but its getting me even more down. i so upset all i can do is think of him and miss him what shoud i do :( ?
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reader, 333 +, writes (12 March 2011):
oh, trust me.. i've been in your shoes. When my ex and I broke up, I felt like my world was crashing down... and when I found out that he was dating a girl 2 days later.. well, I was more than devastated. It's normal for you to feel this way, but trust me... time heals all wounds. I had a hard time getting over him. I recently got completely over him.. and our break up was in July. So keep yourself occupy! think of all his flows and trust me there's a better guy out there for you. I believe there's a reason behind every break up and remember after a hurricane comes a rainbow! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): If he's changed his number and blocked your email and deleted you from his Facebook friends (and on and on), then he doesn't want you back. There isn't even a hope in his heart to have you back. You need to accept that it just won't happen.
How?
What did you used to do before you met him? Party with the girls? Movies? Shooting pool? Bowling? Shopping?
Get back in touch with those things you used to enjoy. You'll be surprised how much you missed them, and it will take your mind off your ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2011): You'll feel better in time. To help this happen, fill your life and your mind with other things, get out and enjoy yourself with friends and in time the memories will fade and you will feel better.
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reader, GeeGee255 +, writes (10 March 2011):
They say that it takes about half the time you were together to get over the breakup. Give yourself a chance to heal.
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