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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2009): I'm 41 and yes I do. Doesn't mean that I would go for a teen boy, but I can't say I haven't seen a hot one and recognized it as a hot one. Nick Jonas? Oh yeah, definitely hot. Nick Jonas naked? Wouldn't want to see. Get the difference?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2009): I am a woman who is 37 years. I would not look once at a male more than 2 years below my age in any attractive sense. A male up to 25 years of age I view as perhaps not as hardened as myself and still learning about life, going through the trial and errors. So I tend to have my motherly side out for a young cub. I tend to watch how he is treated by people in the environment and monitor him if he looks upset about anything. Because he is so young, I overlook his behaviours, such as himself wanting an older woman, by firmly saying no, and I would explain. To me, some-ones boy has wandered from home and is still learning about life. I immediately become the protector and the nurturer since mum is not around. Like a lion with some-one elses cub in my view. Where he may need things explaining, or he may need a sensitive environment and this ones a little rough. I there-fore cannot be attracted to a cub in that way, and no thoughts there enter my mind at all. Just that he is treated well by others because he may be in an upset mood, venture out and have a bad time, and I'll be there to pick up the pieces. I just look out, I'm not in anyones face. I may cause a bit of chaos if any adult treats him bad where dynamics swing to an apology and others are signaled to step in. There is a lot of youth suicide out there. The only difference of women of my age in the bedroom is that we are not as flexible with our bodies anymore. And relationshipwise we are entering further stages of life. We have been there, done that and onto some-thing else. It wouldn't be a journey together. Our nanas are going into retirement homes and our kids are nearly grown. You wouldn't understand our generation and our social skills and knowledge would be far more advanced.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2009): If I may be so bold I do! But within reason. 18-19 the youngest and not all of them though.
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (19 July 2009):
 No! I am 22 and already teenage guys are definitely too young looking for me. Even aside from the physical appearance issue, when I think back to my teen years, awkward fondling with guys who had no idea what they were doing - no thanks!
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reader, holmar +, writes (18 July 2009):
Lol, yes, and it's something that has a tendency to make you feel guilty or like a complete perv. But I do, sorry, and I KNOW I am not a perv. So yes, but it's when you start thinking about acting on it that it becomes a problem. If that is the case, I am thinking something is lacking in your own relationship, or else you completely lack a relationship. Also, are you ONLY attracted to younger ones like that? Or is it just one or two that have caught your eye her and there. We are human. Like he other auntie said, "good looking people just attract attention". Try not to worry so much about it. It's normal. If you are in a relationship though, try putting more focus on that, sometimes when women start thinking about other things, it is because they feel something is lacking in their relationship. If that's the case, do something about it. If not, just distance yourself and eventually you will also be attracted to someone closer to your own age, which should make you feel better. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): I would say some are...good looking people just attract attention. That doesn't mean they want to have sex with them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): I am 35. I am not attracted to teens. I will see a cute teen and think to myself that he will be a good looking man one day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): Not all women. I don't find teenage boy (15-19) sexually attractive, he may be cute but I can't picture me having sex with him. On the other hand, it also depends on how mature the boy is, if he looks older and I can have conversation with, I think I can accept that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): Don't forget that boys mature slower than girls. A 17 year old girl who can bear a child is far more mature, psychologically and sexually, than a 17 year old boy who just wants to muck about with his mates. She is usually more compatible with a man a couple of years older, who is at the same maturity level, where a boy is more comaptible with a girl a couple of years younger.
This could be a reason why teenage boys do not have the same effect on older women that teenage girls have on older men.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (18 July 2009):
I am in no way, shape, or form attracted to teenage boys. I don't have any friends that I know of that are either. Usually we're attracted to guys that look like men...not boys.
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reader, cherry cherry boom boom +, writes (18 July 2009):
It all depends on the type woman she is, a real woman would want to look at a man, hope that answers your question. This ya girl, peace
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2009): I'm going to have to say yes..that even if women don't admit it, a lot of them are attracted to teenage boys, they just choose not to act on it. It's the way we are designed, to be attracted to healthy males that are child-bearing age. But of course all women are different and there are many who wouldn't look at a tenage boy that way.
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