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Do I tell him I enjoyed it?

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Question - (27 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *appy and confused writes:

A few nights ago when my mate slept over, him on the floor and me in my bed, he made a move on me while he thought l was asleep, l felt him play with me only for a couple of minutes l got an errection but pretened to stay asleep. I am not saying l didnt enjoy it because l really did and without him knowing l dothink l am gay.we didnt speak about it in the morning or since although we have been hanging out since then Thing is l want to say to him how l enjoyed it but am scared l will lose his friendship

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (12 January 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony aunt

If ya want to be somewhat sneaky about it have him stay over night again... but this time let him sleep in bed with you. Tell him you felt bad about making him sleep on the hard floor or something like that. Then, while you're both in the same bed, if he starts to feel you up again... you can join in on the action.

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A male reader, 1mikem2 United States +, writes (30 December 2009):

1mikem2 agony auntjust let time pass and if this occurs again then approch the situation when the time is right. it seems to me that he alread has a sertin atraction to you anyways.... what can go wrong??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009):

just say you liked it! im sure if he did it he did it he liked it.

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A female reader, meg2989 United States +, writes (27 December 2009):

meg2989 agony auntWell... despite the fact he pretty much violated you... I guess you could tell him, I doubt you'll lose his friendship because he intiated it. I think you more liked it because he touched and played with you and no offense but boys your age are horny little things dripping with hormones lol. Then again you could be gay, I'd more go with bi-curious right now though, especially because you're so young and dont really know. Anyways I hope that helped.

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