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writes: I am 15 years old and I have been dateing my boyfriend for a few months now. That might not seem long but it is to me. He asked me lastnight if I would be willing to give him a handjob. I said sure because I like him so so much but I don't know how or what to do! Please help.
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reader, bharat mehta +, writes (27 December 2009):
I am not giving you details of hand job, which you seems to need. I am telling you about sex. Your dating meant for it. You know it. but your knowledge lay in your sub-conscious awareness, and waiting to be consciously grasp.
Better you learn with your own judgment. Only thing you need to know is this: Foreplay in sex is real poetry. It will teach you the meaning of life. Don't for go for 'intercourse' And, confidently developed your taste for 'foreplay' with your partner. Light will come and make you feel step by step, and not in a one or two occasion but in a process.
Attraction for sex is natural, it is proof of your intellectual maturity. Best luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): Let's not assume anything here folks... first, rubbing a dry hand up and down a guys penis will not be very pleasurable. You need some kind of lube- spit, oil of some kind. There are some great lubes out there, if you can afford it, go to the grocery and look where they sell condoms.
You need to ask him how he likes it, and if it feels ok. Ask him to teach you how to pleasure him. Pay attention, be genital- just don't move your hand like you're trying to shake up a spray can! Don't squeeze too tight, but be firm.
Have a good time, and make sure that you have plenty of time to do this without fear and hurry.
soap and water clean up after!
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reader, Jodie_Kinsz +, writes (27 December 2009):
Oh hun, you work your way around it when your doing it.
And yeah! Go for it if you like him! You only live once!
And you just move your hand up and down on his you know, and you start to get the hang of it, and what he likes! :)
Don't worry yourself about it.
Jodie, x
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