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writes:Should a guy be driving to get girls?, I am 16 and i am a senior at my high school, most of the girls in my class are driving and i am not, I feel like now if i want to ask girls out i need to be able to drive and stuff? i dnt know if i should really be worried or not
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (29 August 2011):
 No need for wheels to get chicks!! Not everyone has a car. Besides, you're just more environmentally friendly than guys with rides - and having an Eco-conscious boyfriend is definitely a fabulous selling point. Good luck, sweet!
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reader, Dodds  +, writes (29 August 2011):
 No you don't need to drive to get a GF!! That's your insecurities talking,and in my experience women are much much better than us men in sensing insecurity. I would'nt just tell you stuff like be yourself because that is generaly so unhelpful. What I however would say is that you should try and be more comfortable in your own skin which will lead to you displaying more confidence,which women find attractive. Realise that it's no big deal at all,women are women,men are men,regardless their station in life,regardless the trinkets and level of materials they possess. Focus more on your own happiness,going for the things you want in life and all the while bettering yourself as a guy in every way possible,and trust me you will be more attractive to women as your passion,ambition,self drive and confidence will show naturaly. Learn to pump yourself up instead of psyching yourself out at every opportunity you get. Change the stuff you say to yourself in your head ie instead of saying girls won't fancy me because I don't drive,say that I'm in school working towards bettering my self and my life and in no time my life will be where I desire it to be. In other words steer your mind towards positive things and thoughts(you may not believe it but women are good at sensing this stuff)If you fancy a particular girl,go chat with her,get to know her and if it feels right after getting to know her,dont be afraid to ask her out,dont fear rejection,embrace it! Whenever I've gotten rejected in the past,it encourages me to know that at least I went for it and it's one woman less(and out of the way) on my way to finding the one of my dreams. Most(though not all) women want more than material things from a man,and it's up to you to weed the bad out from the good. Painful at times but you gain so much in the process.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011): You don't need to drive to get a girlfriend. Be true and be yourself, and a girl will have no problem finding you to be a suitable and wonderful boyfriend.
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