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writes:there is this guy i like and we are alot alike. but my frient likes him 2. i wanna ask him out but i have 1 question...should i ask my friend if its ok with her since she liked him first?please help me!? Reply to this Question
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reader, tutu8896 +, writes (31 July 2010):
tutu8896 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks 4 the help i will b sure to ask her 1st.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 July 2010):
I don't even think you should go out with him. I think you'll lose your friend.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Yes I think you should talk to your friend first - explain that you really like this guy and want to ask him out but you didnt want to do it before you had spoke to her first because your friendship is more important than a guy.
Hopefully she will be pleased you value your friendship that much that you went to her first, rather than being selfish and going ahead and asking him out anyway. So fingers crossed because you have done the right thing she will respect that and wont mind if you ask him out. But there is a chance she might not want you to ask him out - so in that situation I think you should agree that neither of you can ask him out and you should leave it be. Because if she doesnt want you to have him, then equally it is not fair if she is allowed to ask him out when you still like him. So the best way would be for neither of you to ask him out!
Just remember, friendships are forever whereas boys come and go, so always make sure you do the right thing by your friends otherwise you could lose a good friend just because of a boy.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (22 July 2010):
 Yep, you should ask her first
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