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male
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes: There is this girl that I have been friends with since the beginning of the school year. I really like her but she is towered the higher end of popularity. I want to ask her out because she is funny, very sweet and cute. Yet, I feel too intimidated to ask her out. We get along great but I have no clue how she feels about me. Do I ask her out? What do I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Glacier +, writes (4 April 2013):
If you'd like to talk a lot with her then I'd go bowling instead of going to a movie.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2013): Try flirting with her and building up the banter you have and see how she responds. Then if she shes to like it then go for it.
Hope this helps.
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female
reader, Dorothy Dix +, writes (5 February 2013):
Hi there. Well, you already know that you get on really well with each other, so you know what to say sometimes, don't you?
You said here that she is funny, very sweet and cute, and you get along great.
So for you to say that, it means you have already had conversations with her before writing here in Dear Cupid.
Otherwise you wouldn't be able to say that in the first place.
Don't worry about how popular she is, that's doesn't mean a thing.
Forget about it.
It doesn't matter what others think, it only matters what you think.
If you like her and you do talk to her from time to time, well then why not ask her out to a movie next weekend or if she is busy then, ask her out the following weekend.
Wait until a time when it's just you and her, of course.
Have a look through the newspaper movies section first, so you have some idea of what is on at the moment.
And see what type of movies she is interested in, and go and see a movie she likes.
Just do it, don't even think about what to say.
Everything is perfect - there is no right or wrong here.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2013): Go for it! Don't wonder if she has the interest in you as you do in her. The only way that you will find out is if you ask her! Just be ready to accept her answer either way!
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