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writes:Do girls look at porn? And why are girls so shy to say they "flick the bean"?
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reader, mikeymike +, writes (18 December 2010):
mikeymike is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLol thanks for the answers guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): are you realy asking this question? yes,girls look at porn. i've been masturbating to porn since i was 12. even though i'm straight i love to watch lesbian porn.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I look at porn as comedy and the shock factor. The 80s, cheesy porn cracks me up every time. Now, the hardcore porn where they're fisting a girl's anus, is pretty shocking but I think it could potentially be fake. Some women look at it as foreplay for their partners, some women think it's the anti-christ. Opinions vary on this matter.
As for flicking the bean, girls don't like to admit they do because that's a private part of their life that stays behind closed doors. It's not up for discussion.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I used to look at a ton of porn. Then I started masturbating, and I kind of lost interest. Weird, I know.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 December 2010):
 "Flick the bean" - hilarious. Hi, Mikey - my name is Mikie too, only I'm a girl. Yes, some watch porn (also, some don't. Really!)... but maybe not at 13-15. Some girls take a lot longer to get comfortable with their body and watching porn. I know I didn't start getting into it until I was more like 17-18.
Aren't girls a mystery?
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reader, largentsgirl89 +, writes (15 December 2010):
 I think that depends. I look at porn and I am not shy to admit that I masturbate. Everyone masturbates, just most people don't like to talk about it, especially women because we have grown up believing that it is wrong to tell of our wants and desires.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): I'm female and I watch/enjoy porn. However, I didn't "discover" porn (or become comfortable with the idea of masturbation) until I was 18 or 19... obviously, much later than the vast majority of my male peers! I don't know how common these habits are for women in general but I'm guessing it would be very rare to find girls that sexualized in your stated age range.
As far as being shy when it comes to talking about masturbation... most of the girls your age probably have not fully explored it (no pun intended) and you also have to realize there is a double standard of sorts for boys and girls when it comes to sexual activity, and being open about that activity. Girls will, in general, keep such information private because they don't want to come across as slutty. I hope this helps :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): Some watch it def man just not as often as men I believe.
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reader, SceneXaddicted +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Well Let me tell ya, I will be the first girl to actually fess up and admit to it. Yes. I actually have a group of female friends who all openly talk about and enjoy porn just as any guy. ^_^. Most of us are Bisexual, the other half is straight.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Flick the bean? Is that what they're calling it these days? Hmm...learn something new everyday.
Some girls do watch porn. A lower proportion of the population than men,I'm told, but they do exist. Some have even posted on here in the past.
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (15 December 2010):
 Some girls look at porn. But we dont tend to 'need it' to be able to masturbate. We have good imaginations. Plus alot of porn is aimed towards guys, girls dont tend to like watching other women get humiliated. Well, from what i've seen anyway. As for 'flicking the bean'.. Since when do guys talk about it? They tend to hide it from their gf's. Perhaps the girls are learning off the guys and making it a hidden and private thing. Girls dont tend to sit around and talk to other girls about masturbating. Maybe sex itself but not self pleasure. To a partner, well if he asked i'd tell. I'd expect him to do the same. Otherwise its a lie and relationships dont cope well with lies
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): Yes girls do. Lots of women do. A lot of people do. I think that sums that up.
Honestly to actually say "flick the bean" is just a weird and to me a slightly disterbing way to say it. Granted it is a form to say a masterbation but its just akward and weird to actually say. I have not ever heard anyone say it or use it in context.
Im mean really. Would youuu go around saying you have. Using that form of speech?
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reader, YouWish +, writes (15 December 2010):
 "Flick the bean"??
Never heard that one before. Sounds painful! :P
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