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writes:there is this girl who loves playing with me,catching my attention,beeing allitile seductive and stuff,but sometimes she suddenly backoff,and continues after a few days as nothing happenedand my problem is when she backsoff i keep worrying about what have i done wrong,to find out that she is not upset at all !!is that normal and does all girls play this game with the someone who they are attracted to somehow?? Reply to this Question
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (14 April 2009):
 she is probably playing hard to getwants you to know she likes you but doesn't want to be the one to make the first move she wants you to be the one to ask her out or something.she is just playing it cool and getting you to make the move.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): That means we want you but know we can't or can't right now. Either we are already in a relationship we are not willing to leave for you (yet), or know we you would not be good for us despite the attraction (perhaps you're a womanizer, have a situation we are unwilling to deal with, its in the workplace, etc.). You are interesting to her, but not worth the risk at this point. (If she is like me)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Yeah. lol.. i've never done that. but she makes a good point, maybe she's frustrated and hitting on you and then backing off trying to get you to approach her and then you don't so she comes back for more.. Lol. I'm so glad i'm not a guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Well, if she is catching your attention, and trying to get you to notice her; its an obvious sign that she likes you.It's confusing when someone who is showing the right signs, all of a sudden backs off and does the complete opposite from what you expected. And sometimes girls try really hard for guys to make the NEXT move, as pathetic as that sounds. She might be trying to see how you react to her not flirting and such like she was before.If you like her which it seems like you do, just try it out. You make that next move, and maybe things will work out and something cute and new will start. Goodluck(:
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 I have some questions for you. Do you happen to be married, or otherwise "taken", and she knows about it? Does she happen to be married or otherwise taken?
What is your reaction to her trying to get your attention? Do you respond to that, or do you play the "I-don't-really-get-it" card?
Some women might play that game on you, for many reasons. But, the information you give is not enough to really tell whether she's playing a game or not. Maybe she is trying to connect to you and you don't get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): No, not all girls play this game. But I think this one is trying to tell you to make a move already :)
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