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*crazygirl08x
writes:Hi, a guy I went on a few dates with lost contact with me. After a few months, we caught up on Messenger and I found out he had gotten a girl pregnant (not long before we were dating) and he is scared. He explained that he stopped talking because he doesnt want me caught up in all this or to see him sad as I don't deserve it. I don't know. The trouble is, I really like him, but the only contact we have is when we talk when he is online (maybe once a week). He says he thinks no-one will want him now. But I really do. How do I tell him this? (without being too scary, lmao). I know his situation is hard but I need him to see that I want to make him happy...please help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): see... i think there is absoulutly no harm in looking the bright side of it. look. i dont know the guy. never spoken to him. So all i say ... its just assumptions. You have been with him. spoken to him. So you must taken the desicion.
If you feel . you want to be with him. just do it:)
we guys here .. are just doing are work of helping people. the ultimate desicion lies in your hands.
best of luck.
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reader, xcrazygirl08x +, writes (21 April 2009):
xcrazygirl08x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think you're right.Though he's tried to be reasonable with her but apparently she's being very immature. I don't know, I honestly know I sound like I'm trying to look on the bright side and find things that make him a good person I'm a little in doubt now, but still really like him. God, this is confusing, lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Hey"I'm not sure, but I do think he is scared, he's no longer in contact with her and is prepared to go to court if he has to...."Look. these lines of your has made me think of the guy as a player. Just read the lines you wrote.. he is no longer in contact with the girl and is prepared to go to court..... Oh my god !! this is really bad. If a guy was really sorry and sad about the situation. I think he would kept in contact with her ... and would not lead to the court.ok. this guy had done and enjoyed with the other girl. Got what he wanted .... so know i think you are the next target. Look. Be careful !!!i agree know that you like him. But sometimes you need to analze certain things in life. Think.. what if the guy does the same to me ??
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reader, xcrazygirl08x +, writes (15 April 2009):
xcrazygirl08x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm not sure, but I do think he is scared, he's no longer in contact with her and is prepared to go to court if he has to....but your answer has made me start to think about a lot, thanks hun :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): First off. i want to tell you something being a girl myself , of your age.look. he made a girl pregnant. i know this may sound insane BUT is he really sorry for having created this situation. OK. i know you really like him. Now that you both are friends. i dont think there is any need to feel scared to let him know your feelings to him. the next time you talk to him. let the atmosphere feel mutual. i hope you get right. Make him feel your there for him. and then tell him... you still like him.this all i can say Hope it helps
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