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writes:Hey! I know this probably just sounds like I'm being a nosy bitch, but I've started going out with this guy, only been with him 11 weeks! I'm 17 in 3 weeks and I'm still a virgin, he's 20 and he's also still a virgin, and although I'm not jumping into bed with him, I know 'its' gonna happen soon enough... but I'm worried because I've been told you bleed on your first time.. Could as many ladies as possible please answer.. did you bleed on your first time? and is it as painful as it sounds? thanks! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for ya answers guuyss! only just managed to check them, im just scared of what to expect lol! im sure it'll be fine when it does happen :) almost every girl goes through it :D i read a question a bit ago about a girl bleeding for 11 days! that would be my luck haha x
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reader, pinkgoblin15  +, writes (27 March 2009):
 Eh my first time it hurt for like a min. I was freaking the hell out lol. I was like ow, ow, ow, ow, oh it doesnt hurt anymore lol. But that's just me tho. It just depends on the girl. Some girls will bleed more then others. When some will barely bleed at all. It will hurt like a bitch for some girls (--Thank god im not one of them lol) While some wont will any pain what so ever. Your just gonna have to go do it with your boyfriend and see what happens lol. jk. But good luck use a condom lol
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (27 March 2009):
 a little, not like a period though, it varies from person to person x
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reader, mama2be +, writes (27 March 2009):
i did bleed my first time. it did hurt like a bitch, but i was very tensed up and he was gental, if the male is gental when putting it in for the first time it wont hurt as bad, if they just shove it in, it will hurt. but just relax.. and dont think about it. its more enjoyable if you just like after he puts it in, just start feeling each other while ur doing it and make out and just experiment, touch what you want to, and if your busy doing that shit, your not paying attention to the blood or the pain and it feels good. i dont know about anyone else but i do know that my first time i was sore the next day. maybe just cuz we were doing like 20 differant positions or w/e but just relax and enjoy nature!
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reader, iSmil3y +, writes (27 March 2009):
For me, it was painful for the first few seconds, but then it was fine, not painful at all. There was no blood while having sex but afterwards there was very little blood.
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reader, Lauryn +, writes (27 March 2009):
My first time wasnt painful at all more awkward then anything. As for bleeding there was a very small amount of blood nothing that a tissue couldnt clean up
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): I'm still a virgin, but all of my friends said they bled their first time. And it is supposed to hurt naturally your first time, because I think it's like a thin tissue being torn, and that's what makes it hurt. But thats what I hear all the time.
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (26 March 2009):
 It's different for every girl. My friend said her 1st-4th time hurt, but she is also naturally very tight. Also, she didn't bleed at all.
There's only one way to find out though, lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the replies so far! they're a great help, my friend told me her second time hurt more than her first and she cried! makes it even scarierr haha, thanks againn xx
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reader, Katie94 +, writes (26 March 2009):
I have never done anything but I find this interesting to read. A friend of mine told me that she hurt a lot as he went in and when she made him stop he withdrew rapid;y and caused more pain coming out than going in. She did not say anything about bleeding. I have wondered about the later pain.
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reader, Legioness +, writes (26 March 2009):
 My first time was an utter nightmare, tut.. I was extremely drunk :s so it may have hurt, but it may have not hurt, to this day i'm still not all that sure! Lol as for the bleeding, yep I did bleed, but it wasn't very much at all as far as I can remember :)
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (26 March 2009):
My fist time didn't hurt at all, but I did bleed.
If you have the option of planning ahead, maybe lay on a folded towel, one that you can just toss.
Also, when it does finally happen, just relax. Don't get worked up over anything, just let the natural course take over and you should be fine.
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reader, LilPixie +, writes (26 March 2009):
 To be honest... I couldn't tell as i was on my period at the time - very nice I know :P
It did hurt quite a lot for me, but it was alright because he was really gentle and took it slow. But it doesn't hurt for everyone, one of my friends told me about her first time and said it didn't hurt at all.
Good luck xxx
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reader, Msblessed +, writes (26 March 2009):
 I actually didn't bleed my first time but many women do and yea it hurts but don't think about how much it hurts or else you won't want to do it. Just relax and everything will be okay if you get tense during intercourse it will hurt more than it should.
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