A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, my boyfriend stayed in Hong Kong for less than 2 days and in that time he took out two lots of £125. He is now is Australia and says he didn't do any shopping while he was there - just went to an Irish bar.I am really worried he has used a prostitute (twice) - it's a lot of money to spend in such a short space of time.I don't want to send him an email asking him (he is back in two weeks) but the thought is driving me mad. Am I crazy? I caught him sending dirty texts to his ex last year so I am always a bit untrusting of him.
View related questions:
his ex, money, prostitute, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): I wont have sex with him unless i am sure nothing happened, but the more i think about it the more i am convinced it has. He has been ringing me every day to say how much he loves and misses me and its killing me not asking him and when he hangs up i get upset all over again.
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): It does seem a lot however the money might have been for his onward journey - for example if the exchange rate was better in HKG. Perhaps something will present itself when he gets back and if you ask the right questions it will indicate what happened. I think you are correct to be concerned as he is obviously a little bit 'shady' with those texts and you need to protect yourself. Perhaps be a little cool with him when he returns and see if this prompts any conversations. If you genuinely suspect he has been with prostitutes it would be wise not to sleep with him until you are sure?
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2009): Hey
Thanks for the replies - i will wait till he comes back. He is there on his own so i know he isnt out with his mates and he doesnt buy me expensive things (he also got the money out on the two separate days he was there) but i do appreciate your thoughts
...............................
A
male
reader, DLover  +, writes (27 March 2009):
I understand dirty text does not help trust, but don't be paranoiac neither. You're not crazy, it just happens to everyone to think like that once in a while...
And do not ask him by e-mail ! It might be a gift or some good times with his guy friends...
...............................
A
female
reader, kaylagal  +, writes (26 March 2009):
 Maybe it was a gift for you. Just wait until he gets back.
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): no dont send email - wait for him to come back - he might have bought you something? (apart from the clap)
stop being paranoid and talk to him. i suspect the money was just him having a good time with mates.
Star.x.
...............................
|
