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writes:I meat this guy who is not my exactly my type but after the first date we hit up very quick and we been seen each other for 2 months but him ex was constantly calling and texting and on my question what is going on he promised that is nothing till one day I see them together ... I got mad and then staff to his home I was hoping that he will call and will give me an explanation nothing for all week then I meet him at the local hang out and he say that he is beck whit her that she ask for one more chance and he has been whit her for so long so he decide to give one last chance but he like me a lot and care about me and he did not wanted to hurt me and still want me in his life as friend ... he had a lot of worries about him business not going well so do you thing he went back to her because when you have a hard time people tend to chose things that they know. is there is a chance for me I like him a lot and I want him back in my live
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (16 April 2010):
 It sounds as if he wanted to get back with his ex all the time. In fact, he never did really accept their break-up, because as you say, she was constantly calling and texting.
He may well like you - as a FRIEND - BUT you want more than simple friendship with him and it seems unlikely that he can give you the time and attention you so obviously crave.
He told you he and she had been together a long time, which means she has first priority in his life. I think unless you are willing to spend time fretting and being unhappy over something you can't have, you'd do better to give this one up.......
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (15 April 2010):
You mustn't take him back. He dumped you for the ex, which means he has no idea about what he wants at all. If you ever take him back, he'll probably just leave you again. No matter how much you like someone, there is no use in hanging around for them if they have no idea what they want. I'm afraid you need to move on from him.
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