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writes: Is it common for a guy to fall in love with a girl who he initially wanted a no-strings-attached relationship with? I’m referring to a relationship in which they are the male and female version of each other, so they never fight. They agree about everything. Less frequent sex occurs and the guy wants to do lots of non-sexual, romantic things together. [I'm experiencing this relationship and I never believed he would fall for me this hard...he acts like he drank a very strong love potion] Reply to this Question
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reader, purrfectionist84 +, writes (15 January 2006):
 Well, I think that he started off wanting a no-strings-attached relationship, but once he realized how well you two got along, it was only natural for him to feel so much more. He simply couldn't resist your charm! :-)
Sometimes, we're afraid to get too attached in relationships because we've been hurt in the past, and opening ourselves up to others also opens us up to the possibility of being hurt again. But when we meet someone who we really connect with on that special level, we trust that they won't hurt us. We open up to them more and more until we find ourselves head-over-heels in love with them. Love, to a certain extent, is about taking risks.
It sounds like you two have a very strong friendship, too. Did you start off as friends? They say that some of the best relationships begin as friendships.
Love is a beautiful thing, isn't it? Enjoy it!
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reader, aunty butterfly +, writes (14 January 2006):
 Hello,You sound like you are asking if he is normal hunny,he is,but the question i have in my head is does it feel normal to you?because if it doesn't then what chance are you giving him or yourself?Its sounds to me like you both had the chance to bond with each other earlier on as you were in the frame of mind of'no strings attached',you just flourished together and have probably formed a friendship too(a bonus).Just relax and stop asking too many questions about how he feels about you and start enjoying how he feels about you instead...wish you all the best, hope it turns out good,girl..take care xAunty Bx
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reader, Mr.Ed +, writes (14 January 2006):
 I think it's very common to fall in love and get sappy. Initially, he came in with a "got nothing to lose approach" and when that happens your eyes usually are open. You tend to focus on the others better points; there are no expectations and you can be yourself. Then you really find out what the girl is made of and how cool she really is. Love just accelerates from that point.
Honestly, sounds like the two of you are having a blast and need to stay on track. Your lucky and lot's of others aren't. Run with it; hold it very dear to you and cherish or milk it for all you can get.
Good luck
Ed
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (14 January 2006):
 I'd say this is fairly common, yes. He's found something that good, and that he likes, and that he wants to keep. For himself.
Is this a bad thing?
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