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Should I meet up with this online guy I've known for 3 years? I'm scared...

Q.   I met this guy online three years ago we talked ever since but he lived in london which is otherside of england to me. we never met up and havent talked for about 6 months. Today i got a text from him, he is in Leeds for a year and wants to meet up ...

A.   12 September 2008: I think that our intuition says as much to us overline as much as in person. although, they can hide things much easier. don't let him call the shots about the meet. Meet in a park, or at a dinner place where you both arrivein seperatly ca... (read in full...)

Did he cheat? Or is he mad at me for making the acusation?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend of 4 months had just broke up.He broke it off with me cause i questioned if he was cheating which he denied. I told him his friend told me and he said i was tring to get him mad at his friend.Of course he denied it and said a ...

A.   12 September 2008: hon--here's why he broke up with you. because you were saying the truth and other than save your relationship and tell you the truth. he has to save his face and throw a big fit that says "you don't trust me" and you shouldn't. think about it! ... (read in full...)

We broke up a month ago and finding out he may be in a new relationship hurts me so much. What can I do to stop this?

Q.   Dear cupid, My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about one month. He basically dumped me because he said we were having problems. We were together for four years. Now I sometimes go on his myspace page ... I guess because I really miss hi...

A.   10 September 2008: Myspace can be merely a place good for panic attaks. many use it for evil. what were these "problems" he felt gave reason to break up with you? Please don't be sad about it. it's hard I know. but, to stay away from his myspace is best. My guess ... (read in full...)

Should I confront my boyfriend about what he did to me while I was drunk?

Q.   Last weekend I got drunk on my boyfriend's farm. I remember very little execpt for the part where I think he raped me. I remember being in the bathroom and him coming in behind me and making me lay on the floor. I told him I wanted to go back ...

A.   9 September 2008: this may sound stupid, but since you were drunk and it was a party, are you sure it was him? if that answer is yes, then..the only reason to confront him is if you are trying to get him to understand what he done was wrong. He doesn't deserve ... (read in full...)

Could I possibly be pregnant?

Q.   hi im 18 years old and bout 4 days ago me and my boyfriend had sex and he injected in me 3 times in a row and today i been feel kinda weird like my stomach feels like its getting tight every now and than and my breast been hurting a little and i ...

A.   9 September 2008: Of course you could! You didn't say whether you were using protection? The feelings you are having in your stomach is worry! so, I'm guessing you do not want this pregnancy? If not, and you are comfortable with birth control I would suggest ... (read in full...)

I am feeling like a FOOL!

Q.   A long distance relationship for the past 8 months; how foolish! I believed and hoped; yes, I wanted to believe that all will be well and that he will come to visit as promised and arranged for the last month. However, like so many times the ...

A.   9 September 2008: Ok, One thing I have learned is it is never about you...harsh as that sounds,whatever reason he changed his mind could be doing you a favor. If he is this misguided, secret person, he is hiding something. I was on the flip side of the same sit... (read in full...)

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