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writes:Hi, i was dating a girl for almost a year and a half and then all of a sudden she broke up with me... I was super devastated and still am since I still love her a lot. I wanna be with her still but she doesn't really wanna see me no more. I asked her for reasons and she just said we were too different just like that after more than a year. I thought it might of been because of another guy but she denies it and everyone else I talk to says there is nobody else. So, I'm confused! I really want her back but when I go to talk to her she just tells me to go away. She had been avoiding me like a week before she broke up with me. What do i do I still really love her?Do you think there is another guy?What do i do if I want to get her back without being obsessed over her like I am now? And if there's another guy, why would she want him over me all of a sudden because she told me I was a good boyfriend? She said I was a good boyfriend and I did everything to keep her happy... So please someone out there help me....
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for the good advice. So, I'm deciding to leave her alone for a couple weeks and then see how things are going. Is that the right thing to do? Is it a smart idea to talk to her after that so see how she is doing and how things are going? Then to maybe get back in her life, i don't know I'm just hoping to...
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reader, masquerade711 +, writes (23 March 2008):
 I'm going to be blunt. But please understand I'm not trying to be heartless or rude, ok?You are still so deeply into this girl that you're not seeing what's going on. It sounds to me like she got bored. Believe it or not, some girls are like that. Maybe she got bored of being with just one guy and wanted to go out and be free and experience other people. I know this is probably hard to entertain, but it's a necessary evil. Of course, this could be nowhere close to her reason for ending things. Maybe she really does think you're too different. And if that's the case, you're going to need to step back and give her some space. That also could be all she needs. After a couple weeks away from you, she might realize the error of her ways. (But in saying that, I wouldn't wait around for her for much longer than that. A month, tops.)I sincerely hope this works out for you in the way it's supposed to, that either you and your ex reconcile or that you find another wonderful girl to make you happy. Best of luck!masq
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