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writes:So I've been considering going into online dating again. I've used plenty of fish and match.com in the past and all the guys I talked to were a bit passive. Sort of either way too cocky or no confidence at all. A friend of mine, a female, mentioned she has good luck with (don't judge) the hookup sites. She says that often times the guys on there are less games since they are kinda putting out what they're looking for and she's actually had 2 good relationships off of those.I'm looking at adultswithbenefits.com which is what she used, but I'm apprehensive. She told me to stay away from the adultfriendfinders and the big ad-budget ones. Has anyone had any experience with this?
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reader, Tyedyedturtle +, writes (15 October 2011):
 Okcupid.com is a legit site with a great matching system and is totally free. I've been on plenty of dates with people I met on it and also met my current boyfriend there. I would stay away from the hookup sites, personally, if it is a serious relationship youre looking for. Online dating just takes patience and a lot of sifting. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2011): What do you have to lose? Give it a go, life is full of surprises.
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reader, bebe87 +, writes (14 October 2011):
 I really don’t recommend this at all for you. Try eharmony.com I am actually in a very serious relationship from that site. I believe that match.com and ones close to that are just another facebook. But with eharmony people have to go thru a lot more than just uploading a picture and a small explanation of themselves therefore I feel like they are more interested in finding someone for the long run.
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