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writes:Hi, Can anyone help please. I met a guy on a dating line and he lives a long way from me (2and a half hours drive away). He has been phoning constantly and texting and we have met up a couple of times. He calls me at all times of the day, sometimes even texts in the night and early hours and asks if I am awake and if I am he calls me to talk. He is very sweet and makes me laugh. He is a workaholic though and sometimes when he has called me he is working on his tractor or whatever whilst he chats. My problem is that he came to stay overnight just last night and left this morning and did not text or call me which he promised he would. I finally texted him and asked him what was happening and he finally texted back and said he was sorry but had been run off his feet since he got back.. I am feeling really insecure and I know that I should not be giving this amount of power of my feelings to this guy but I can't seem to help myself. We have got on so well and been very close in an emotional sense and can talk easily to each other. I am being over sensitive? I will really appreciate a mans point of view about this too. Thankyou for reading this.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 October 2011):
 Well everything seems to be going well between the both of you, which is great. You are both getting on with each other well and you have plenty of contact. Ok so he never contacted you when he said he would but if he was busy well then he was busy. I think you are being a little over sensitive I don't see why this would make you feel insecure. As long as he had a reason and apologised well then just let it be. If you where to argue and worry all the time about small things like this the relationship would never work.
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