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*ithmint
writes: Alright, I will make it directly so that you guys won't be feel bored about it. PEOPLE, tell me the correct term of "making out". Till now i thought making out is just a kissing. Yes, even though i am in high school I don't have much information about these kind of stuff. Omg i am really scared..My boyfriend wants to make out with me! I was like.."we did it like last week" (Yes, my first kiss and it was a nightmare. I'm such a worst kisser) so he was like "that was just a kissing" blah blah blah..and he thinks that I'm too innocent. :/So...my question is WHAT EXACTLY IS MAKING OUT? (IN DETAIL PLEASE!) I know..I am such a lame piece of shit.Aaaand..I'm kind of scared about it. But i think my boyfriend want this so badly.HELP MEE!Sorry its all messed up, hope you guys got what am i trying to say.Thanks.
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reader, withmint +, writes (15 October 2011):
withmint is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much! It really helped!
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reader, Odds +, writes (15 October 2011):
It's just lots and lots of kissing in one sitting. Maybe some groping, heavy breathing, whispered nothings, and other stuff like that on the side, but the focus is on lots of kissing all at once.
Don't worry about being a bad kisser in the beginning. Everyone is to start with, and at your age, just about any kissing is awesome (doubly so if their breath isn't bad). Skill doesn't magically appear at the "correct" age, it comes from passion and experience - note that's repeated experience with one person, not many people (no guy will ever help you develop your technique if he's just around for one night; you have to stick with him a while so you can learn to read the signs and respond to them).
Anyway, making out is fine at your age. I'd still wait for sex if I were you, and it sounds like you aren't quite ready yet (and there's nothing wrong with that), but that's your call. Your boyfriend may tease you about being too innocent, but that's just one of those "sweet nothings" people whisper. Move at the pace you're comfortable with, and if he's worth dating, he'll stick with you. He might try to see if you really mean it, but he won't leave you if you do.
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