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writes: Here Goes...I'm a gay man who has met another great guy about a month ago. I find him intelligent, attractive, attentive, and much more. We decided we wouldn't have sex until about the 8th date. We did. This was about two weeks ago. He continues to be attentive and talks about us in the 'long term'. I really feel as though I'm falling in love with him yet am concerned. What do you think...1gr8tguy Reply to this Question
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reader, suhrit +, writes (13 October 2005):
You find him intelligent, attractive, attentive. Please check what he has found in you. and see if you can garuntee those qualities in you will be available for him for ever. In love, the continous renewal of the mystry is important. Gay relationships are more delicate as it rarely has a social recognition. If you attract each other with your qualities other than sex appeal then no problem in falling in love. But if sex is the main driving force then the relationship might become stale once the initial phase of sexual attraction is over.However, when you lik eeach other, do not burden yourself with such thoughts.
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (12 October 2005):
 If you've had a few bad experiences, then I understand why you might think your guy is "too good to be true", but from the brief description you give, I think you're in luck!
Try not to succumb too fast to the feeling of being in love (I know it's difficult). Make sure that both of you are on the same wavelength in terms of how you like to spend your time, and how you interact with others. Few things are worse than being someone who *loves* parties and crowds and being with someone who *hates* those things, for example.
Make sure that he always treats you with respect and care, and don't ever let him make you feel that your feelings take a back seat to his. The basis of a great relationship is equality and respect, followed closely by trust.
So far, so good! He's sounds great.
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reader, AuntieChrissy +, writes (11 October 2005):
What are you concerned about? He sounds like a great guy, and I'm sure you'll be very happy.
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reader, Cambelina  +, writes (11 October 2005):
Sounds like things are going really well! I think you should take each day as it comes and be grateful for it. So far, things are looking really positive for you so just try and relax and let things take their course! Good luck!
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