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writes: Hi, I'm a girl and I have a friend that's a guy. I have known him for about 4 years. We are friends. My problem is that Ilike him as more than a friend, but I don't know if he feels the same. Do you think I should tell him how I feel or just keep my mouth shut? I like him a lot! Please help me?! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2005): I'm afraid this isn't going to help too much but just to let you know there are others that feel the same way. Namely me. I don't know what to do either.
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reader, Kay-the-Cloud +, writes (11 October 2005):
I was in a situation like that before. I told him how I felt and he told me how he felt about me, he liked me as well and we started dating then. And there was one times when I told a guy I liked him he said he no feelings for me. It was really hard to get over because I liked him and I still do a lot. But when you tell them you feel better that you know they know how you feel about them. They can't really not be your friend any more because you like him more than that. Just tell him how you feel, but then again I'm not the expert so I would think about it first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2005): okay, theres a few things to think about first! do you get any vibes from him? do you think he might feel the exact same way? are there signs? what exactly will happen when you tell him? he might be surprised, releived, upset, etc. try to weigh out the reaction possibilities. four years is plenty of time to get to know a person, so what will come of this, a relationship? is that what you want? is that what he'll want? is there any other girls hes after or after him? and what will happen if he doesnt feel the same way? will your four year friendship actually end or will it jsut be altered and become weird. no one can answer these questions better than the two of you. sit on it and answer those troubles to the best of your ability.
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