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writes:ok so i am 16 years old and i have a pretty serious boyfriend. i dont want to sound stupid but can you get pregnant if you dont have sex? we both had pants on, but there was thrusting and i could feel *him* and i kind of had an orgasm, but since i have never had one i'm not really sure what exactly it feels like. i really dont know? we both had pants on. could i be? please help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2011): I was 35 yrs old when i got involved in an intimate physical embrace (which lead to passions igniting between us) in an emotional situation; I made him come on me (NO PENETRATION). I became pregnant and have a 5 yr old kid now because of that. Luckily, it was my husband who I was with. Due to some medical and pshycological issues, he doesnt get involved in such activities and hence, that was the closest I got with a man. [I had indulged myself into that activity intentionally as I wanted a kid and we were getting old even without knowing that we can actually get pregnant this way.] I havent shared this with anyone except a gynec last year when i got scared looking at the equipment used for pap smear; she acknowledged that sperms can travel on their own even if ejaculated outside the body and am sharing it with you so that you are careful.
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reader, pixiemoma +, writes (18 March 2007):
 No, there is no way u can get pregnant as long as he doesn't cum. If u decide to go all the way make sure u use a condom, promise they will save ur life.
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reader, Farris  +, writes (11 March 2007):
 It is true that you can get pregnant without penetration, but for this to happen either pre-cum or semen has to get into your vagina... This is HIGHLY unlikely through clothing.
I heavily suggest you learn a bit more about sex education before you go any further with him.
Best wishes.
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (10 March 2007):
 I would very much doubt it if you had your pants on. You need to get all the facts on sex and get some protection sorted you dont want to end up pregnant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): It is not true that the penis has to enter you in order for you to become pregnant, if his penis is near your vagina and he has emited what's called pre-ejaculate it is possible, all though not as likely as if he had entered you, that you could become pregnant. This pre-ejaculate contains many sperm and they swim and can live inside you for about 3 days just waiting to see if you have an egg they can fertilize.
So, I don't think that having your underpants on means you are pregnant thought, hihgly unlikely. But if you are thinking of going all the way, and I hope you are not, you are quite young, then please go get on birth control pills and use a condom always.
Having sex at a young age for women (even if you only have one or two partners) greatly increases you risk of contracting cervical cancer for reasons that are not fully known. That would be enough reason for me to wait until I was fully mature (around 20) to ever think of having intercourse, but maybe you are feeling bullet proof.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2007): You can't get pregnant if you both had your underwear on.
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (10 March 2007):
 You are not pregnant. His penis must enter you and either ejaculate or some semen come out. They're good but they're not magic! Stop worrying and get more clued up before you go any further.
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