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anonymous
writes: I spent the night in bed with a man I love on Saturday, and it's about the eighth time I have shared his bed. We only see each other now and then but he has already said that he adores me, that he thinks I am a great woman and that he admires me. On Saturday I took all my clothes off and I took all of his off except his underpants when we were in bed. He put his arms around me but I don't think he got an erection and he has never made love to me. I am beginning to to have quite a complex! He does drink but never drunk so it's not that. I'm feeling quite sad and low, not because of the lack of sex but the fact that he may not find me attractive and yet many people both men and women say I am beautiful and that I am a very interesting person too, as I have had quite an exciting life up to now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2008): Another vote that it's not you and he's probably got ED trouble.
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reader, LazyGuy +, writes (15 September 2008):
If he has erection problems it is not your looks that cause them.
There may be many reasons, best to talk to him about it.
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (15 September 2008):
I think you both are mature enough to talk this one out.
Personally if I was standing there naked in front of a guy and he didn't jump me, I would think he's gay.
I wouldn't let it bother my self-esteem at all.
I'll move on to someone who is going to rip my clothes off. lol.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (15 September 2008):
Maybe he has problems keeping an erection?
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