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Is this the beginning of the end of our life together? I feel disgusted with him since he told me his fantasy.

Q.   My husband and I have been married for 18 years. I know he had one partner before we married and I had also. The other night after a drink he asked me my sexual fantasy. I gave some chicky answer....on a beach or somehting. His was....Since I am ...

A.   5 August 2009: It's not the beginning of the end at all, I personally think you may be looking too much into it. Fantasies are just that....something you think about but would probably never end up doing. Fantasy doesn't mean reality. :)... (read in full...)

Our sex life is drying up...What can I do?

Q.   Hello,my name is ashley im 23 my boyfriend is 20 we have bin daiting for about 3 1/2 years and we have a lot of fun together...we used to have sex like every other day as time goes on and we get more and more used to each other we dont have sex as ...

A.   5 August 2009: Maybe you've got into too much of a routine? Try something different with him - there's loads of different positions you can try or maybe even new places? Maybe he's stressed out with school/work or has some other problems which has taken his mind ... (read in full...)

I hate my clitoris being touched...is this normal?

Q.   i absoloutly HATE getting my clit touched, i can't stand it. the only way i enjoy sex is when i'm fingered. is this normal?...

A.   5 August 2009: I too used to feel like this because there are so many nerve endings there, it becomes very sensitive. There's nothing abnormal about it. However, try not touching it dirsectly, try touching just above it. This seems to work great for me.... (read in full...)

If it goes from a relationship to casual sex, shouldn't the issue be discussed first?

Q.   Hi all got a relationship question if a u go steady with someone and the relationship goes down and only becomes a sexual one am i right by saying that the person introduces it by saying he/she just wants sex because they hoping that some how they ...

A.   5 August 2009: I'm a bit confused as to what you are saying I'm sorry - you had a proper relationship going on, but now he just wants sex and nothing else? Is that what you mean?... (read in full...)

Confused with a great guy who blows hot and cold...

Q.   There's this guy I really like and we have got together twice now - but both times we were a litte drunk. There has been no sex involved as I've explained I think a lot of him, and want to wait and see how it progresses. We talk very openly...

A.   24 July 2008: 2 completely different responses there haha, but I apprectaite both, thank you for taking the time to answer. I think I need time to think about things, and have decided if nothing happens by the weekend ie) both of us going out on a SOBER da... (read in full...)

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