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*ptonGirl
writes:my boyfriend ed broke up with me today he said he wasn`t ready for a relationship but he kissed me i`m so upset. I don`t know what he means. Does he still love me but don`t want us to be boyfriend and girlfriend just yet?
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reader, Denise32  +, writes (28 June 2010):
 Yes, that's what he means. You are both very young and shouldn't be tying yourselves down just yet.
I'm sure he is fond of you, only he realizes he can't be your bf at this point.
In the next few years you'll meet lots of boys you date for a while, then break up, and will wonder what you ever saw in the one you just ended it with. That's natural. Its called "growing up" - in other words, this is practice for the time you'll eventually meet a guy you want to settle down with.....
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reader, anna123 +, writes (28 June 2010):
hey hunni
give him time, if he does love you and the kiss meant something to him then im sure you will find out soon enough.
dont worry your both young and youve got loads of time.
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reader, arlamai +, writes (28 June 2010):
The best advice I can give you is to accept it gracefully and walk away. I am not saying this wont hurt but it will mean you keep your dignity. If he wants a relationship he will change his mind with space to miss you. If he doesn't want a relationship, you will appear to be very cool and mature.
I am saying this as a fully grown woman who has just had the same thing happen to me. Unfortunately I didn't say 'that's absolutley fine, maybe i will see you around' no... instead I was very stupid and texted him trying to change his mind... He never replied and now I look like a crazy woman!
I wish I had just walked away with best wishes and a smile on my face!
This happens to everyone, it's rubbish but it means the boy you end up with will be that extra bit special. You have to kiss some frogs to find a prince ;)
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