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Do you think it's a bad idea for a girl to let her man go to a bar without her?

Q.   My boyfriend wants to go to a bar Friday night with some of his buddies. His friends have a band and are performing that night. My friends are all like "your letting him go by himself?" I'd never let my man do that!" He's never given me a reason not ...

A.   16 April 2009: Are you worried about him having fun without you? Do you not trust him? I can't think of any reason why you should worry about him going out to a bar with his mates. It's totally normal, and good for your relationship to spend time apart. ... (read in full...)

Is my boyfriend gay? He's got me wondering

Q.   Is he gay? My boyfriend wants anal sex a lot, but I don't want to give it to him. He has a lot of male friends but is a "guy's guy" - athletic, sociable. But, he spends a lot of time with a particular friend behind closed doors and has even made ...

A.   2 April 2009: Guys often like it because it's tighter... simple as that. I think you're being paranoid!... (read in full...)

My ex has got back in touch saying he wants to be really good friends with me... Why???

Q.   My ex boyfriend never did care about me. He lied, went behind my back seeing other girls, complained to his friends about me - about how he did't want to be with me. After more than one year of not being in a relationship and treating me rather ...

A.   4 March 2009: He doesn't deserve you - he's messing with you!... (read in full...)

Can you suggest ways of slowing him down and suggesting he does more foreplay? Any examples of foreplay?

Q.   I wish my boyfriend would try more foreplay when we are in bed. Can you suggest ways of slowing him down and suggesting he does more foreplay? What are some foreplay things we can do? Is suggesting that he lick my body with his tongue a good id...

A.   3 March 2009: whipped cream/strawberries/ice chocolate will help him get into exploring different parts of you... more slowly... you can also tie him down and tease him a lot.. he might then realise how exciting it is to have lengthy foreplay (perhaps even a b... (read in full...)

Could sex be used as a way to celebrate friendship?

Q.   I have been working as an English teacher here in Poland. In about a month I am going to leave Poland and return to my home country. My issue involves two women. One woman is also an English teacher at the same language school that I teach at....

A.   27 February 2009: I guess the only risks involved would be losing them as friends, but, and you're right and realistic, it's unlikely that long distance friendships will really last the test of time, so you might as well go for it. Perhaps choose just one of them... (read in full...)

I don't know much about her, how can I know her better?

Q.   Hi, I am in a strange situation and need your expert advice.I am 26, and well settled professionally. However I have never been in a relationship with a girl mainly due to my shy and introverted nature, moreover I always was of the belief that I ...

A.   27 February 2009: You could write her a note or a letter and tell her you're shy and thought it would be the best way to approach - say something about the lost art of letter writing and that you think it's a shame... if she writes back or smiles when she sees you ... (read in full...)

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