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*forde04
writes:After going out on a few informal dates with a girl I met a couple of months ago now, I’ve decided I want to ask her out as (stating the obvious) I like her, and I’m pretty sure she likes me! Anyhow, my last relationship was over four years ago and rather short-lived, so as you can imagine I somewhat lack experience I am unsure about how best to phrase asking her out – Naturally I want to come across as being serious and genuine … so if anyone could offer any advice/guidance it would be much appreciated! Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (28 June 2011):
 It is quite simple. Do you have her phone number? Call her, or text her, whatever seems more appropriate. You score bonus points for calling, but if she's somewhat shy/you're not definitely sure she'll say yes, texting can be the easier option as that will give her time to formulate her response.
This is what you do, you call/text and ask: Hey, I enjoyed hanging out with you last time, maybe you want to meet up for coffee?
And that's it really!
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reader, serenity80 +, writes (28 June 2011):
Keep on going out on dates and spending fun times together.
You should be able to judge how interested she is in you by how much time she wants to spend with you, and how much she misses you when she's not with you.
I don't think you need to bring up what your relationship status is, I would say, wait for her to have that conversation with you and then when she does, tell her your feelings.
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reader, N91 +, writes (28 June 2011):
 Maybe something along the lines of: 'Hey so we've been friends for a while now and I've enjoyed hanging out and spending time with you, I'd really like to move forward with you and go beyond friends into something more serious'
Just let her know that you enjoy her company, but you would like to be more serious with her, give her a clear signal that you're asking her out so you're telling her exactly what you want...
Good luck mate!
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