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writes:I was broken up with a few weeks ago by my first serious boyfriend-the person I first told "I love you". I think it might have been due to the fact that I wanted to spend too much time together (read; too needy). I've never been a clingy person, and I kind of cringe thinking about if that's how he saw me. The question is, how can I get him back? I've realized that I don't need him as much as I thought, and if we were to try it again I would dial back the contact a bit. However, I still love him. Simply, how can I make him love me? Or remind him of why he loved me? We had a really amazing relationship for a long time. Reply to this Question
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reader, VMLBabyDoll +, writes (20 July 2008):
i read yur question i wanna cry i have the same problem i do feel im being to clingy, hes my 1st love and id hate to loose him.Even though its a question, i think it helped me out..... and hey im sorry u you cant make some one love you, never force yur love.
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reader, lovinthehubbyx  +, writes (19 July 2008):
 hey hun i say you can never force a peice to the puzzle if it dont belong there here im going to say the same you cant force someone to love you but you can take your time to remind him of what a good relationship you had but dont push to hard also dnt lay back to far and end up on the floor...i hope this helps xx
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (19 July 2008):
 Spending to much time with your partner can get stale. I believe the recipe for a successful relationship is to give each other personal space and not be too clingy.
My motto is... Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You cannot make a person love you, it has to be something that is recipricated and not one way.
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