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*akey boy 08
writes:Hi - my gf cheated on me twice with the same guy an I'm worried she has feelings for him. She says she doesn't but I'm not sure I forgave her the first time.I just found out she has done it again. I don't want to lose her because I love her so much. What should I do? Thank you.
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reader, jlovinj  +, writes (11 August 2008):
I had the same thing happen to me, BRO! It's funny how once someone doesn't respect you for one reason or another they just can't seem to treat you right ever again!
It's human natue to want to show that we are worthy so we do all we can to prove that they would miss out on a great thing, but once this has happened there really is no use continuing. Count your loses and move on. Love yourself enough to know when it's time to leave. Leaving will slowly build your self-esteem if you make your life the best now and build for your own future! All women will want a man who is ambitious and confident so if your heart and finances are right then the woman that comes along next will be grateful to have you!!
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reader, inloveoutofmind +, writes (19 July 2008):
take it from me :( it will haunt you. just take a break and think about what your gonna do and please dont get back together unless you are ready. be careful with your heart because if you dont you will loose it to someone who really doesn't want it. i hope you understand that she was being selfish and you need to see what other problems she may have. good luck and remember think about what your gonna do very hard.
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reader, Peterk5699 +, writes (19 July 2008):
 2 words: Dump her.
I'm sorry but if she's going to cheat on you twice then she'll do it again most likely.
I'm one to go with the line "Once a cheat, Always a cheat"
You may love her but her feelings are obviously somewhere else I'm afraid.
It's best to tell her you want nothing else to do with her and to move on. It'll be hard, yes but you'll be glad you did it in the long run.
Good luck!!
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