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writes:hii know my question is stupid but i can't tell anyone.can i have a relationship with my father's step brother? he's not from our family he's just the son of my grandmother's new husband.we're so attracted to eachother but i don't know.. is he my uncle and i can't have a relation with him or is it ok?plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys
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reader, :):):)  +, writes (23 August 2008):
I imagine it would be difficult for your family readjusting to the idea but as long as you are two consenting adults then you are not breaking any laws.
Ofcourse if he has always acted as 'uncle' since you were a child then I would readdress the situation.
Consider how much you like each other and if it outweighs the negatives then go for it.
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reader, chloe71z +, writes (22 August 2008):
 You are NOT blood related so go for it. basicly you are only related by marriage and arnt related at all.
Go for it your over 18 and hopefully he is also. Who cares what other people think. They will learn to accept it cause it makes you happy.
Good Luck
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reader, carol3232 +, writes (22 August 2008):
Ok well some people might fing this a little grose but if you are attracted to him then you should do what you feel you want to do. It is very hard when you let somthing pass you and you live your whole life thinking "what if". Plus he is "step" brtoher so thats no blood related so theres nothing wrong with that
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (22 August 2008):
 Read this:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/dating--step-uncle-right-or-wrong.html
In my opinion, as long as you're over 18, it's right since there's no blood attachement and you're considered an adult, but your family might see it as morally wrong.
If you two truelly feel strong about each other, then talk about it with your family. Hopefully they will be accepting to your relationship.
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