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*inda lee
writes:I really do not know what to think. I am British he is American(military) and we met in Korea on internet site. We started going out and we broke up as he was evasive and luying and putting his profile back. He is 40 and I am 41., he was married with a daughter. Now. sex is good but he seems can not cum and he is hiding it, he always changed his opinions etc. Now after breaking up he contacted me about 4 months afo and we capt in touch , we met a month ago and started again a relationship, but it is now same as before. He is great in begging and than bum. I spent a weekend with him and as I live far now I spent five hours in travelling back and when I called him I was bit snappy with him as being tired and trying to call him and him iving me wrong number but he acted OK. I sent him an e mail apologizing for my behaviour but since than nothing, not a word from him. he always do that, put a blame on me. He never can not say, hey we are finished and that is it. I mean we are not teenagers. What should I do, should I just forget him?? Yesterday on yahoo msn I asked him what is going on and he just completely ignored me. What the hell does he think he is???
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reader, linda lee +, writes (10 July 2010):
linda lee is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much on your answers. I am ready to let him go finally...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 July 2010):
On/off never works. And let's face it, he's very deceitful. He's placing his name back on dating sites, which means he's hooking up with others. He says he WAS married. Coupled with the fats you've presented, that could mean that he is STILL married. He's just a total waste of your time and space. DITCH HIM, and find a better guy. There are a lot of better ones out there than this man.
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reader, AuntyEm +, writes (8 July 2010):
 He wont break up with you because he doesnt want the guilt, or maybe he wants to keep you on the hook for when he's bored.
He will never change. If he is married then you have even less chance of making anything work with him.
You should not have apologised for snapping at him. You were tired and he messed you around...you should have told him to F*** Off. Instead you apologised and made yourself look weak...and he has wiped his feet on you.
You absolutely DO NOT need someone like him in your life ( I dont care how cute he looks or how great he is in bed)...he is a jerk and he is messing with your head and playing stupid games.
Break free darling and go find yourself a real man, because there are plenty of good men out there!!
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (8 July 2010):
Is he married? even if he isn't he's a jerk. yes you should tell him he is not going to waste anymore of your time! to go buy him a blow up doll! honey you are proably not the only one he's playing head games with! not unless like i said he's married!Good Luck!
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