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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year. We've had sex several times, but it's always just me giving him oral and a handjob, and then intercourse. The only part of my body he will touch is my boobs. I've never actually asked him about oral, I mean I'm really shy and have a very hard time asking him anything if it's about sex. I found out today that he won't give oral at all. His friend said something, and I knew that he was talking about oral. But I acted like I had no clue what they were talking about, just to see what he would say, and he said that he'd never do that. What should I do? I really love him, but I don't enjoy our sex life at all and I'm thinking about telling him that I don't want to have sex anymore. I don't know what to do about this.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (8 July 2010):
 You won't ever be satisfied if you don't speak up and tell him what you want. If you don't, he's going to continue to think you're fine with his selfish attitude towards sex, because you've been allowing it.
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