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writes:I am 15 and i am a bisexual, a year and a half ago, i told a boy in my year, that i was convinced was also gay/bi, that i liked him and he cyber bullied me.It has been a year and a half later and he hasn't spoken to me at all, he has unfriended me on facebook, he hasn't even texted me! i have tried to contact him with apologies and anything that i could think of to try and make things better with him, but the truth is, i still like him a lot! he just ignores me at school, he wont even make eye contact. it is hell.I some help on what i can say to him to try and fix things because frankly, i was virtually in love with the guy before he stopped speaking to me. please help...
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (21 October 2011):
 I apologize.. i didn't even take into consideration that he may be denying his sexuality... and that does add a component to it that makes it murky...
I still think you need to let it go for now...
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (21 October 2011):
 I'm sorry to tell you... but you really should just give up on him at this point. He, obviously, doesn't want anything to do with you right now. There's two reasons for this... either he's TOTALLY straight and a homophobe... or he's gay/bi and in the closet / completely uncomfortable with himself at this point. Either way you shouldn't push it. If, at some point, he comes to his senses and seeks you out then you can open back up to him... but for now... I'm sorry to say... you'll have to find someone else in which to invest your emotional energies.
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reader, yum yum  +, writes (21 October 2011):
 Possibly So Confused could be right that he wants nothing from you. Its also possible he is in Denial of being Gay/Bi and is trying to hide it from himself and you, by showing that he doesn't care about you at all. Be nice to him and ask him once why he is igoring you, Or you could just try ignoring him and see what happens.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 October 2011):
He cyber bullied you and you want to be friends with him? WHY?
he does not talk to you
he unfriended you on facebook
he does not answer your texts or attempts to contact him
LOUD and CLEAR he's making it known he wants NOTHING to do with you.
perhaps you like him BECAUSE he won't pay any attention to you and in turn your attempts at contact are feeding his ego...
You say you are in love with him.. tell me why.....
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