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female
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anonymous
writes:Im 45 and my daughter to him is 9 months old Hi There,My Fiancee and I have been together for 3 years now.He cant stop perving.( he denys it )I just want his attention, if he sees a hot girl on the tv ( most of the time he changes the channel or looks away) guilty. He has a problem.he said there was a new office lady and i said what is she like he went of his head at me and said shes hot and im gonna perve on her all day and pick her up. I said no your not he slapped me across the face and said grow up. I said i was just asking( It Hurt ).3 weeks later the same thing 7.30am in the morning he wanted to jump on the trampoline and put some firewoodover the neighbours fence as he promise them. I said it was to early and everyone would still be in there pyjamas. He went off at me and said i was worried about him perving grow up and get inside now!!!!!!As he slapped me very hard across the face.I have become very quiet and I love him cant stop crying and i want to leaave but i cannot.Cant talk to anyone.No apology at all just grow up and i think his trying to punish me.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Birdy said it all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2011): No excuse for this type of abuse. Get help now. Call the police.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (27 January 2011):
 Yes. You should stay and take it until he gets bored enough to slap your daughter too. You are obviously to blame. AND - of course - it's your fault that he hit you - if you were a better girlfriend and mother - he would change.
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SOOOOOOOOO -
Ask yourself - is any of the above what you are saying to yourself in order for you to stay with him and tolerate this bullshit?????
GET OUT OR CHANGE THE LOCKS TODAY AND KICK HIM OUT!!!!!!!!!!
DO IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
He is abusive. Do you really want to raise your daughter and teach her to deserve to be slapped around too? WHERE IS YOUR SELF ESTEEM!!! You deserve better. I know for a fact that he doesn't deserve to have fathered a child. GET HELP. Get legal counsel and protect yourself and your daughter.
Her is a list that may help you finally see him for the cowardly little boy that he is:
http://www.familyshelterservice.org/what-is-abuse/assess-your-situation/
Good Luck Hunnie and God Bless. Be strong and protect yourself and your daughter.
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