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female
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anonymous
writes: Hi. I won't bore you with the details but why is it that relationships can be so one sided. I f my partner and i have an argument for whatever reason and some can be huge arguments on the verge of splitting up, Im always the one to try make amends. He never admits that he could be in the wrong. I leave sometimes and spend time with family and he never contavts me to ask where i am or if im ok. He just gets on with what he is doing and if i ask him if he wants to talk or sort things out, he just says it is up to me. if im not happy then we should go seperate ways. we have been together 3 years. I REALLY THINK HE COULDN'T CARE EITHER WAY. When we are together and things are good between us, he says he loves me all the time yet he seems not to be bothered if were together or not. please help me understand x Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, desta101 +, writes (27 January 2011):
Im sort of in the same boat. My bf is Very head strong. he has gone a week with out talking to me about wat happened. that killed me. once when i left i told him how i really felt and just before i left i said sorry you dont give a shit i will always love you, and i dont no how u can live ur self after all that has gone on it would make me sick.. ever since then he calls me full on if i leave or he gets in his car and follows me to talk.. Ive been with him for 2 and half years and its hard to no go back but hun if he really dose not care try and do some thing for you and if he really wants it he will come back to u on his own im sure he noes were u live let him find it on his own
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