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Been together a year and things about him are really started to bug me about him now!

Q.   Okay, so I have been dating this guy for one year. I have known that I loved him for a long time and we have even kind of thought about marriage in the future, but for the past month we are fighting on and off and on and off. At first I thought it ...

A.   15 February 2007: remember that you are very young and that you have the rest of your life to live! ... (read in full...)

My BF isn't very well endowed, is that why the only 3 times I've had sex I haven't orgasmed?

Q.   my boyfriend and i have had sex three times and all of the times the only way i have reached an orgasm is by him giving me oral. I did have one the first time but it was very brief and quick. Is there a reason behind this? He isnt all that big, ...

A.   15 February 2007: you're not alone! a lot of woman, about 70percent, cannot reach orgasm through penetration alone, i am one of those! try spending more time on foreplay, the more aroused you are, the more likely you are to climax via penetration, but if you don't, ... (read in full...)

My own insecurites are causing me to think he is judging me when I'm on top during sex!

Q.   my boyfriend says he gets tired of being on top when we're having sex. But me being on top just feels awkward. I feel so vulnerable and judged. I know I probably shouldnt feel this way with someone I love and its not a question of can we be open to ...

A.   15 February 2007: your boyfriend most probably wants you on top because it really turns him on getting to see your naked body when you are having sex. if you think about it, when he's on top, all he can see your shoulders, neck and head. i felt exactly the same when ... (read in full...)

I really want to leave him because he hid that he was a smoker from me!

Q.   Recently I made my boyfriend quit smoking. I have a big problem with smokers. My mom smoked when I was a kid and I hated it she finally quit when I was a teenager and we became a lot closer. I vowed from then on I wouldn't have to deal with smokers ...

A.   15 February 2007: even though i'm a smoker myself i can understand and sympathise with your situation. my bf is a non-smoker but unlike you he's a bit of a hypocrite and smokes very occasionally. what you need to understand as a non-smoker is that smokers cannot give ... (read in full...)

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