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writes:I am 26 years old and never had sex with a girl, only guys, I never had the loving for girls, until few months ago, what is the best way to see if I like girls,as i am trying chatting a going clubbing but cant get any girls, should i just stick to guys or should i try different ideas
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 Nothing wrong with a little experimenting! If you want to switch to girls for a bit, then hell, go ahead and enjoy!
Don't listen to Dr.V, we're wonderful creatures ;] He's just a little cranky. And the anonymous agony uncle.
It's MEN who can be a pain in the ass. Sometimes literally (Bad joke, I know...)
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reader, oldfool  +, writes (17 July 2008):
 This is not such a difficult question.
Of course you should try it with a girl! At least then you will know what you are missing out on. If you like it, try it some more. If you don't, you can always go back to men with renewed vigour.
But it's not as easy with girls as with men. Men are quite easy to pick up. Girls, well, it takes a bit more work, usually. That's why a lot of men enjoy the CHASE. That is, they love the feeling of gradually closing in on the kill, and once they've got the girl, that's enough for them.
Happy hunting!
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Dr. V, thanks for that comment! NOW I understand why my husband wakes up screaming sometimes. No, seriously, all we can do is to try to understand the opposite species' brains. It's difficult, isn't it? I prescribe patience, humor (sorry Dr. V--humour), great listening skills and chocolate.
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Stick with guys.
Women are a nightmare.
Damn right girls i said it you're all a pain in my ass. expect the aunts here as i love you all like a rash :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2008): Stick to guy´s. I´m straight. Believe me, Women are are nothing but trouble. I´m alone and better off. I can´t find men sexually attractive (either it´s biological or I was brought up that way) and I´m not interested in trying. However, I´ve got some really buddies and if I was gay it would solve alot of problems. If Girls thought and behaved like guys (but continued to dress like girls) then the world would be a paradise. I thinhk if you´re gay and confortable with it to contnue to live the way you want to.
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reader, A Cappella +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Sexual orientation is who you fall in love with. Wait until you find a connection with someone, whatever gender, and go for it.
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reader, efc1981 +, writes (16 July 2008):
efc1981 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the fast reply, still confused but I will be until I meet that right person and try it with a girl, I am going on holiday next month th Ayia Napa and hopefully meet a girl and see what its like, then I know what I like,
Thanks for all the advice, I know what I need to do, I jsut need the confidence to chat to girls and hopfully with help from my (Straight) mates, i will be able to help me.
one of them knows my past and has alreay tried for 4 years to help me and he said he will help me all he can,
I will let you all know somehow how this works out!
I should have a better picture by end of august
yet again thanks for all the advice
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Who are you in love with? Who do you REALLY care about?
Those are the ones you should be having sex with. Indiscriminate sexual activity, treating your partners just as "experiences" and not as people, will leave you unfulfilled no matter what their gender. Go for the whole thing. Go for the caring and the partnership. Once you've found that, you'll know who you should be sleeping with.
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reader, cute angel +, writes (16 July 2008):
 well hun!!i think ur a lil bored with the same old routine in life and want to try out sumthing which is new to you..i think u should go ahead,there is nothing wrong in spicing ur life up..try it with a girl,its only with experiences u will learn..
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reader, StudentOfLife +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Life is about experience, when you experience you learn and when you learn-you grow.
I say experiment
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