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writes: :(problem is i love this lad to bits , everything wa sfine between us until my enemy said to him that i fancied him , and yes i do but i kept it to myself so i didnt ruin anything , so i denied it of course to save my friendship , but now he ignoring me and i know for a fact that he is , i feel upset that in one day my enemy has ruiend the one good thing i had. why is he ignoring me ? i havent done anythg wrong and feel like i have lost something special , i am officially gutted what can i do about it to save my friednship? help x Reply to this Question
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reader, Ashlee-x  +, writes (16 July 2008):
He probably just feels awkward around you now, but it wont last. Your enemy might have even done you a favour, because now its out in the open (kind of) I think that you should just get him on his own, and talk to him about how you feel and how you dont want him to feel awkward around you or uncomfortable. Obviously you may find this realy hard to do, but it will make you feel better and not like you are hiding anything from him, and you never know, he may feel the same about you!
I hope in some way i have helped you.
Good luck
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reader, A Cappella  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 You have 2 choices:
(1) pretend nothing happened and act the same way you did before. (This has the benefit of one-upping the person who told, as it looks like she has no effect on you.) or
(2) level with your crush. Let him know that it's true, you do like him, but you enjoy your friendship too much to let that get in the way. If he doesn't want you that way, you're fine, no worries. (This has the benefit of maybe working out with the guy, further pissing off your enemy, or at least of clearing the air.)
Good luck.
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