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writes:I am a 25 year old woman and am married, my husband is 46 years old and he has 2 boys. I love my husband and I want to have a kid from him but he doesn't want to me to have kids because he wants his boys grown up first. Okay here is my problem his boys are thieves, they always stole jewellery, money and alcohol drinks it makes me so crazy and I told him to send them to their mom but he refused it. I can't live like this any more I'm always stressed and unhappy please help me what can I do?
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reader, HeartASHXOXO  +, writes (26 January 2009):
Seriously. Dont put yourself as that character. First of all, your 25 and your husbands 46. You see it all the time where theres a bitchy young step mom who could care less about the kids. Come on now, dont talk that way about them... if they have a problem talk to them. My guess would be there pissed off about about you and there dad.. who wouldnt be... and they are rebelling
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reader, OSCARS MUMMY  +, writes (2 January 2009):
 it could take years until his children are grown up - he is 46 now would he want to be a dad to young children again at 50 or 55??? i dont hink so - you are so young at 25 and i imagine have a good 15 years to worry about having children - but dont be fooled by him - he may not want more children - every woman has a right to be a mother and dont let him spoil your chances. You have a lot of problems with his children - i dont honestly think your husband has any respect for you it is like your opinion does not count which is not fair the children are clearly unruly and rude - you should not have to out up with this at such a young age.. if you could you must leave him you have so much time to meet someone new who will love and respect you and want to have children with you - i dont think this man does?
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