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writes:This is pretty embarassing for me, but...,I want to have anal sex with my bf but I have hemhroids--is it possible to still have a good time? I've been waiting for them to go away but they've been around on and off for about 7 mo. I know, I should change my diet etc. but is it ok to still go ahead with the act, I'm sick of waiting maybe it'll be ok with the right kinda lube? I heard there are specific kinds of anal lube, will this help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2008): If you really want to have anal sex then you should wait till these clear up, either by seeing a doctor or buying some haemorroid cream.
Without wanting to bring a downer on the subject. I was once advised by a sexual health worker to never have anal sex as it can cause some pretty serious problems for you internally.
But if you wish to carry on,I cant stop you! Just make sure you use lots of lubricant and take things slowly.
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Go to the docs and get it sorted - personally I think anal sex will hurt like hell with this condition and make it worse x
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 Oh geez. Do you enjoy pain or something?
Ask your doctor to explain what exactly has happened in your ass. Blood vessels have bassicly exploded outwards and are now open and exposed. Do you really think it is a good idea to then shove something as gigantic as the male penis (please ladies, allow an old man his illusions) in there for several minutes?
There are lubes which desensitize, not that good an idea if you think about it. Pain is a warning. The last thing you want is not to feel pain during anal sex (yeah yeah I know I got it easy saying this as a guy) because then you won't know if it is going to far. The first warning might be bleeding.
Bleeding hemorrhoids are NOT a good thing.
If you absolutely insist on anal sex, wait till your body is fit. Then use regular lube, LOTS of it and take it very very slowly. On the whole, I suggest you leave it, yes men like it, let them do each other. There are some who suggest anal sex can cause hemorrhoids and since you already seem to have a tendency to develop them at a very young age... well why risk it?
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reader, Aunt tilly +, writes (2 May 2008):
 If you,ve had this condition for 7 months then you really should have gone to see a doctor about it. Heamroids do not go away by themselves especially in severe cases. Not only are they uncomfortable but without the correct treatment can become worse. Any notions of wanting anal sex I would suggest you put completely from your mind until you have it sorted out, as you will only aggravate the condition, and no amount of lubricant is going to make the act any easier.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 May 2008):
 I think you shouldn't take that chance. You don't want to aggravate your condition or cause you more severe damage. My bet is that you wouldn't be feeling anything anyways. I suppose you would have to use some anaesthetic to avoid pain.
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